A Father’s Day Tribute

My Dad, A Faithful Servant

A God-fearing man.
Quiet.
Steady.
Consistent.
A faithful servant was he.

Dad was Dad—
Meek, mild, and even-tempered,
day in
and day out.
A faithful servant was he.

He rarely told me what to do.
Sometimes, I listened,
and other times,
I didn’t.
A faithful servant was he.

He tolerated my fashion shows.
Twirling and dancing,
he turned newspaper pages.
Gazing up each time
with an ooh and an ahh.
A faithful servant was he.

Dad held my hair back when sick.
Cool cloths blotted
neck and forehead,
hand held
tenderly.
He was there for it all.
A faithful servant was he.

“Dad, can you drive me here,
there, everywhere?” I pleaded.
Off we would go.
Ice-skating, sledding, roller-skating.
A faithful servant was he.

As nutmeg and cinnamon
filled the air,
a rolling pin and flour
lay on the counter.
There stood Dad,
donned in an apron
and
chef’s hat.
A faithful servant was he.

Peering through
the oven door’s glass.
Waiting patiently
for the pies
and fruit cake
to bake.
A faithful servant was he.

Work clothes each workday.
Coffee.
Apple.
A Bible tucked in his lunchbox.
A faithful servant was he.

Jack of all trades,
His tools lined up on the pegboard.
Played music by ear,
sang solos at church.
A faithful servant was he.

He lived by faith,
walked in grace,
and loved as best he could.
Not perfect, yet steadfast.
Well done, good and faithful servant.

Dad’s 70th Birthday Celebration
Circa 1988

Happy Father’s Day!

#Father’sDay #Parenting #Faith #MothersandParenting

Wine & Faith by Nadia Crane: Reflection #1

A Reflection Series for Mental Health Awareness Month

The Weight of The Overwhelm

Excerpt from Wine & Faith – 19 Days in Napa

Jill, the main character, is having an internal dialogue with herself about her husband, Derek…

“With the teacher conference conversation still fresh in my mind, I felt at a crossroads. I saw a pattern. Derek did not. My good kids were morphing into out-of-control kids. As a mother, I had to fix this problem….So, I decided to call Amelia and finally take her up on her offer for a visit.” – Jill Mandela

Faith Reflection

Have you ever felt like you were at the end of your rope and had to do something fast?

When we get overwhelmed, it feels like the walls are closing in. And there is nowhere to escape. In other words, it is that crushing point when everything feels urgent.

The people we love hurt.
Responsibilities pile up.
And there is pressure to “fix it.”

But sometimes, feeling overwhelmed can be a signal. It tells us that something needs to change.

Jill realizes she needs distance.

Not to escape – but to find clarity.

“But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” -Luke 5:16

In this passage, we read that Jesus withdrew to quiet places to pray. He needed space to breathe. A place to pause and regroup. Clarity doesn’t always come through effort. Sometimes, it arrives in stillness and prayer.

In several key moments in the book, Jill reads scripture and then seems to receive a divine message. All leading her to greater insights and a softer heart.

Haiku

In the tangled noise
Clarity waits, whispering—
Step back, take a pause

Reflective Questions

When life feels too full, where do you go for clarity?

What’s one area in your life where stepping back could help you see more clearly?

I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Please comment and “like” this post if you feel led to do so.

#MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #Overwhelm #Relationships #WineandFaith #NadiaCrane #thepaiseleyfrog #LifeJourney

Wine & Faith by Nadia Crane: Introduction

A Reflection Series for Mental Health Awareness Month

Introduction

May is Mental Health Awareness Month.

It’s a perfect time to pause and reflect.

In the next few days, I invite you to join me in a series of reflections drawn from the novel Wine & Faith – 19 Days in Napa.

Whether you’ve read Wine & Faith or not, these blog posts are designed to stand on their own. Wine & Faith isn’t for everyone. Yet, in the next few weeks, we’ll explore a few themes that most people encounter at some point.

This book isn’t about mental health in the clinical sense, but it speaks to the emotional burdens we carry. It is the perfect book to use as a backdrop for Mental Health awareness.

A Little About the Book

Wine & Faith touches the heart. It shows patterns that repeat across generations, feelings of loneliness, unmet emotional needs, and a strong wish to be seen and heard. It weaves themes of faith and personal transformation with the rawness of human experience.

In Wine & Faith, we follow Jill, a woman trying to make sense of the growing chaos in her life. The walls seem to be caving in, and she is facing a crisis of faith. Her husband, Derek, carries his own inherited, unhealthy patterns.

Wine & Faith explores how brokenness can slowly lead to healing.

In the next few posts, I’ll share:

~A brief excerpt from the book
~A faith-grounded reflection on a hidden stressor
~A haiku to uplift your spirit
~A journal prompt to guide your thoughts

Let’s navigate through Jill’s journey together.

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Please comment and “like” this post if you feel so led.

#MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth #Relationships #WineandFaith #NadiaCrane #thepaisleyfrog #LifeJourney

14 Days of Love: Love Deeply – Day 14

Valentine’s Day is a great reminder of how much God loves us. Call someone you love who you haven’t chatted with in a while. Tell them how much you love them.

Love makes my world go round. How about you?

    Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

    1 Peter 4:8
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    Prayer

    God,

    I love you, God! I love how you speak to me when I’m alone with my thoughts. Thank you.

    Let me love and forgive with the grace that You have shown me, each and every day for the rest of my days.

    Amen

    Reflective Question

    What steps can I take to cultivate a more profound sense of love and forgiveness for those around me?

    #ValentinesDay #14DaysofLove #TheBible #Meditation #Spirituality #Love #Forgiveness

    14 Days of Love: Love Endures Forever – Day 13

    Give thanks to the God of heaven. His love endures forever.

    Psalm 136:26
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      Prayer

      Lord,

      Thank you for your eternal goodness and kindness.

      Amen

      Reflective Question

      How can I express gratitude for God’s enduring love in my life?

      #14DaysofLove #Love #Meditation #TheBible #Spirituality #ValentinesDay

      14 Days of Love: Love Your Partner – Day 12


      Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.

      Ephesians 5:25
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      Prayer

      Lord,

      Please help me affirm my partner more and reveal to me how to love more selflessly.

      Amen

      Reflective Question

      What little acts can I do each day to show my partner how much they mean to me?

      #Love #TheBible #Valentine’sDay #Spirituality #Meditation #Relationships #14DaysofLove

      14 Days of Love: Love is Rejoicing -Day 11

      The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.

      Zephaniah 3:17
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        Prayer

        Lord of Heaven and Earth,

        Thank you for being my Mighty Warrior who shows me everlasting love. May I delight in the songs you sing in my heart.

        Amen

        Reflection Question

        What are some ways in which God delights in me?

        #Love #TheBible #ValentinesDay #Spirituality #Meditation #14DaysofLove #Rejoice

        14 Days of Love: Love Binds Virtues- Day 10

        And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

        Colossians 3:14
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        Prayer

        Lord,

        Thread your love through us so we can thread it through others.

        Amen

        Reflective Question

        What virtues can I focus on to strengthen unity and love in my relationships?

        Hint: Compassion, Humility, Integrity, Patience, Gratitude, Courage, etc.

        #Love #TheBible #ValentinesDay #Spirituality #Meditation #14DaysofLove #Virtues

        14 Days of Love: Love Mercy – Day 9

        He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.

        Michah 6:8
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        Prayer

        Almighty God,

        Help me to discern your voice among the many distractions of this world. Show me how to live more fully with you walking beside me.

        Amen

        Reflection Question

        How can I differentiate your will from my own?

        #Love #TheBible #ValentinesDay #Spirituality #Meditation #14DaysofLove #Mercy

        14 Days of Love: Love in Devotion – Day 8

        Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.

        Romans 12:10
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        Prayer

        Almighty Father,

        Teach me how to love and honor my family and friends more fully.

        Amen

        Reflective Question

        What can I do to honor those around me?

        #Love #TheBible #ValentinesDay #Spirituality #Meditation #14DaysofLove