Hey Cutie-Pie, Are We in Love? #4: A Sense of Humor

A Series on Love, Laughter, and the Little Things

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Let’s be real.

Life is serious enough.

A good partner knows when to crack a joke—especially when you’re about to cry over spilled milk.

“A cheerful heart is good medicine…” — Proverbs 17:22

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Humor doesn’t mean turning everything into a stand-up routine.

It’s about not taking yourselves too seriously—and finding joy in life’s mishaps.

It’s the inside jokes, the shared giggles, and the funny faces across the dinner table. It might even be tossing a dinner roll in the air.

So tell me: What’s the silliest thing you’ve laughed about together recently?

Laughter is key.

It’s the sparkle in your eyes.
The way your laughter echoes through the house.
It is the playful wink that says: We’re in this together—and we’re going to have fun along the way.

A sense of humor will get you through the tough times.

It’s the gentle stuff that says:

“I’ll make you laugh when you really want to cry.
And I’ll be here for all of it.”

I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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Hey Cutie-Pie, Are We in Love? #3: Patience

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Let’s be real.

Patience is hard. Right?

But don’t we all deserve a partner with the patience of a saint?

A good partner doesn’t mind waiting!

Whether it’s for you to finish your epic story about your day or to find your phone (that’s in your hand).

Or the glasses you are looking for that are perched on your head.

“Love is patient…” — 1 Corinthians 13:4

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Patience isn’t just about waiting—it’s about how you wait.

A good partner’s patience turns awkward silences into shared jokes. And maybe 45-minute outfit decisions into a runway show.

So, tell me. Which one of you takes longer to get ready?

Patience is key.

It’s the quiet smile.
The gentle touch.
The eyes that say, “Take your time – I’m here.”

It’s the little gentle stuff that says:

“You’re worth the wait.”

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Hey Cutie-Pie, Are We in Love? #2: Honesty

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Let’s be real.

Honesty is the best policy. Right?

But if your partner’s “constructive feedback” sounds like a bad Yelp review, maybe it’s time to dial it back a tad.

Learning to tell it like is with love comes with practice.

“Instead, speaking the truth in love…” — Ephesians 4:15

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Honesty is about sharing your heart, not tearing someone else’s apart.

It’s about gently nudging each other to grow—like pruning a rosebush, not hacking it to bits.

It’s the warm voice.
The soft words.
The caring eyes.

It’s the gentle stuff that says:

“I’m on your team. I believe in us.”

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Hey Cutie-Pie, Are We in Love? #1: Kindness

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Let’s be real.

Holding the door for each other is sweet. Right?

But if that’s the only time your partner shows kindness, you might be dating the doorman, not your soulmate.

Kindness is the secret sauce that makes even the worst days feel a little better.

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” — Ephesians 4:32

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Kindness is more than sweet gestures. Sure, flowers are lovely! But it is the kindness in the everyday stuff.

It’s about remembering your coffee order (even if it’s longer than your grocery list).
It’s about listening to your story for the fourth time, nodding like it’s brand new.

It’s the smile.
The tender eyes.
The tone of voice.

It’s the gentle stuff that says:

“I see you. You matter.”

I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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Hey Cutie-Pie, Are We in Love? Introduction

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Introduction

Do you have what it takes for the long haul?

Hmm.

Want to find out?

Let’s start by rating our humor meter. On a scale of 1 to 10, what’s yours? And what’s your partners?

Over the next few blog posts, we’re going to explore what makes a couple “tick.” Hopefully, we will uncover the secrets of a long-lasting relationship. And maybe laugh a little, too. We’ve synthesized years of research to create short, playful insights just for you.

So whether you’re already married, engaged, or daydreaming about the love of your life – grab a cup of coffee and join us!

Here’s to June!

The magical month of weddings, sweet promises, and love stories that can last a lifetime.

P.S. Curious about how June weddings got their start? Check out this previous post here:

See you next time when we’ll dive into the small, sweet gestures that can keep love alive. Like opening the door for each other.

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A Mother’s Day Tribute

It was Mother’s Day.
Decades ago.
I told my mom I would have a baby, too!

Here is a poem she wrote after she found out..

Our Baby

Our baby’s having a baby –
We can’t believe it’s true!
Seems like only yesterday,
We were diapering you.

Our baby’s having a baby –
We’re excited as can be.
Grandchild number five
Is added to our “tree.”

Our baby’s having a baby –
A bundle in pink or blue;
A little girl or a little boy,
With features from each of you.

Our baby’s having a baby –
Isn’t it exciting?
For the dad’s side, it’s number four;
As we welcome soon one more.

~Connie Walton, 1992
1924 – 2017

Here is my tribute to her, written today for Mother’s Day 2025…

My Mom, The Rock

She never told me what to do
and didn’t map the road ahead.
She listened.
Quiet.
Steady.
Like a rock.

As I poured out my thoughts,
Not once did she say, “You should…”
She only nodded and stayed silent.
Like a rock.

And when I stood in that kitchen,
telling her I’d be a mother too,
she didn’t give advice,
she beamed from ear to ear.
As if she already knew.
Like a rock.

Although I swear I saw a tear,
A tear of joy was shed for me.
Listening was the lesson.
Her warmth, her knowing glance,
Blanketed me with comfort.
Like a rock.

Love wasn’t in instructions or advice,
but in her presence, that was real.
At two o’clock in the morning,
she would answer my email
in the stillness of the night.
Like a rock.

My mom’s face was like a book.
She proudly wore her emotions.
Steady.
Loving.
Like a rock.

A solid rock, was she,
Secretly rooting for me each day.
I know deep inside my heart,
She lives on through me.
Like a rock.

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!

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14 Days of Love: Love Deeply – Day 14

Valentine’s Day is a great reminder of how much God loves us. Call someone you love who you haven’t chatted with in a while. Tell them how much you love them.

Love makes my world go round. How about you?

    Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

    1 Peter 4:8
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    Prayer

    God,

    I love you, God! I love how you speak to me when I’m alone with my thoughts. Thank you.

    Let me love and forgive with the grace that You have shown me, each and every day for the rest of my days.

    Amen

    Reflective Question

    What steps can I take to cultivate a more profound sense of love and forgiveness for those around me?

    #ValentinesDay #14DaysofLove #TheBible #Meditation #Spirituality #Love #Forgiveness

    14 Days of Love: Love Endures Forever – Day 13

    Give thanks to the God of heaven. His love endures forever.

    Psalm 136:26
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      Prayer

      Lord,

      Thank you for your eternal goodness and kindness.

      Amen

      Reflective Question

      How can I express gratitude for God’s enduring love in my life?

      #14DaysofLove #Love #Meditation #TheBible #Spirituality #ValentinesDay

      14 Days of Love: Love Your Partner – Day 12


      Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.

      Ephesians 5:25
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      Prayer

      Lord,

      Please help me affirm my partner more and reveal to me how to love more selflessly.

      Amen

      Reflective Question

      What little acts can I do each day to show my partner how much they mean to me?

      #Love #TheBible #Valentine’sDay #Spirituality #Meditation #Relationships #14DaysofLove

      14 Days of Love: Love is Rejoicing -Day 11

      The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.

      Zephaniah 3:17
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        Prayer

        Lord of Heaven and Earth,

        Thank you for being my Mighty Warrior who shows me everlasting love. May I delight in the songs you sing in my heart.

        Amen

        Reflection Question

        What are some ways in which God delights in me?

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