A Tribute to The Groundhog

It’s Groundhog Day!

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Many of us are familiar with the 1993 film, “Groundhog Day,” starring the famous comedian Bill Murray. In this flick, he plays a weatherman sent on assignment to Punxsutawney, PA, to cover the annual Groundhog Day event. Does the groundhog see his shadow for six more weeks of winter, or does he not indicate spring will arrive shortly.

Groundhog Day,

“is a tradition observed in the United States and Canada on February 2 of every year starting in the 16th century. It derives from the Pennsylvania Dutch superstition that if a groundhog emerges from its burrow on this day and sees its shadow, it will retreat to its den, and winter will go on for six more weeks; if it does not see its shadow, spring will arrive early.”

Wikipedia

The movie begins with the clock turning 6 a.m. and the alarm playing “I Got You Babe,” a Sonny and Cher certified Gold hit on the Billboard Hot 100. Bill, who plays Phil Connors, wakes in his hotel room, only to repeat this segment many times in the movies. Finally, Phil realizes he is caught up in a time loop, with the same day playing over and over.

In psychological terms, he experiences a personal transformation. Phil’s character matures from an arrogant, self-centered one to a more authentic human being who genuinely cares for others. His pursuit of love offers comic relief to the often awkwardness of dating.

Lessons Learned

Lesson #1: Be Open to Personal Growth

Phil has an incredible opportunity to reflect on his day, reassess, and make changes for the next day. He learns to be kinder and compassionate by listening more and seeing life through other perspectives.

Lesson #2. Embrace the Present

The endless loop Phil finds himself in allows him to live in the moment. He learns to find joy in simple pleasures

Lesson #3. Find Purpose

Phil falls in love with one of his colleagues, and in his pursuit of “winner her over,” he realizes that love gives purpose and fulfillment to his life.

Reflection

This movie provides an opportunity for all of us to pause. To Pause and reflect on how we would live our lives differently if we knew what was coming next. How often do we say to ourselves, “If only I’d known?”

This movie serves as a reminder to live life fully.
To be our best selves.
Not mediocre selves, but our best!

What does your best look like? And, would your best be the best for someone else?

Living my best self taught me to think more and talk less. I have learned that my words matter. My actions matter. My intentions matter. I want to make this place a better place and impact lives. The lives of friends, family, and strangers. I want us to come together as one.
One people.
One God.
One love.

#GroundhogDay #PersonalTransformation #BestSelf #Authenticity #Relationships #ServeOthers

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The Spirit of Garnet

The Spirit of Garnet

January blankets us with frosty whispers,
Beckoning us to cuddle up to a flickering flame.

The fiery gemstone warms the soul,
Carrying a tapestry of passion to the core.

Beyond its exquisite allure,
It dazzles and dances the essence of fire.

Hot, steaming, romance of flesh,
Bodies keep each other warm.

In the depths of a cold winter night,
The Spirit of Garnet is a poet’s muse.

Its deep red hues and embers aglow,
The fiery vigor of life itself.

Love’s enduring trust that binds,
Two hearts and spirits become one.

Shielding from harm, its protective powers,
Guides us on a spiritual journey.

The transformational force consumes and purifies,
The fire of love ignites the spark.

#love #garnet #fire #gemstone #January

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A Tribute to: Chilly Willy

January 20 – Penguin Awareness Day!

Lessons Learned from Chilly Willy:
Perseverance
Be True To Yourself
Resourcefulness
Adaptability
Resilience

In the 1950s, there was a cartoon character named Chilly Willy. Chilly Willy was an adorable penguin who did not like the cold. He wore a red hat and a scarf. Chilly Willy wanted to escape the cold and head south to a warmer climate.

In this one episode, Chilly Willy is very cold. He starts ripping newspapers and throwing them in the fire to stay warm. One of the newspapers shows an ad for a fur warehouse. He finds the warehouse and spends the next few minutes trying to steal one of the furs. Except there is a “Beware of Dog” sign. Each time the penguin steals a fur, the dog chases him. The dog ends up putting all the furs behind a locked door. Then, Chilly Willy finds a razor and cuts the hair off the dog. He somehow manages to sew the hair together for a coat. The show ends with the dog putting the fur coat on his own tail, and then Chilly Willy’s head pops out of the coat on the tail.

In another episode, Chilly Willy is watching television and sees a commercial for an extreme sports competition where there will be plenty of food. Since he is hungry, he sees this sporting event as an opportunity to gain access to lots of food. Chilly Willy tunnels himself through the gate and competes in ice skating, windsurfing, and skiing events. All the while trying to evade the infamous security guard, Smedley, the dog. Chilly Willy goes on to win three gold medals!

Lesson #1 – Perseverance

Despite his small size, Chilly Willy is tenacious. He keeps at it. He has one goal. To stay warm. He takes risks. We learn from Chilly Willy that even the smallest creatures can achieve great things by focusing on new ideas. It takes persistence and determination for a little penguin to find warmth.

Lesson #2 – Be True To Yourself

Chilly Willy doesn’t behave like other penguins who love the cold. He has a charming personality and overcomes obstacles, even in the face of adversity. He often runs from Smedley, the dog who wants to eliminate the “pesky” penguin.

Lesson #3 – Resourcefulness

Chilly Willy showcases resourcefulness by using creative solutions to overcome challenges. He consistently utilizes resources that are readily available to him. Like turning the newspaper into fuel for warmth. Or turning the dog hair into a fur coat.

Lesson #4 – Adaptability

There is no challenge that Chilly Willy won’t try to overcome. Despite being a penguin, he adapts himself to his surroundings. His character emulates the very humanness of us all. He is vulnerable. He shows emotions. He creates humor when facing challenges. Hopefully, there is a little Chilly Willy in us all.

Lesson #5 – Resilience

Chilly Willy outsmarts Smedley, the dog, every time. But it is challenging. Chilly Willy bounces back from all types of circumstances, like the cat who has nine lives. The cute penguin does not let failures deter his spirit. He moves forward and continues his quest for whatever he seeks, like warmth or food.

So, in honor of Penguin Awareness Day, we salute Chilly Willy. This adorable little creature dressed in a tuxedo gave millions of people mindless laughter as he performed his many antics. If you haven’t met Chilly Willy, I encourage you to watch an episode on YouTube.

Chilly Willy Image Credit: Walter Lantz created character

#ChillyWilly #Resilience #Adaptability #Resourcefulness #BeTrueToYourself #Perseverance

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I and Thou: Happy New Year!

Grow & Glow

Mesmerizing flames ablaze,
Burn throughout the day.
Capturing cherished memories,
Clasp tightly to the heart.

Exploring new territory,
Venture out of comfort.
Standing vigilant, astute, and alert,
Listen to the gentle winds.

Whispering possibilities,
Eyes fixate on mysterious signs.
Welcoming new adventures,
Skip along the way.

Like glass being blown,
Into a crisp, clear pane.
Seering off the rough by flames
Bring forth a polished hue.

Casting off the dreary,
Let optimism flow.
Unfolding the tale of a new year,
Relinquish fears to set sail.

Embracing clarity through new lenses,
The flames to refine.
Dissipating the burdens of time,
Joyful spirits will warmly glow.

#NewYear #Reflections #Flames #Glass #Memories #Glow #Joy

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A Christmas Miracle – Part 7

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There are several slightly different accounts of the nativity story in the gospels of Matthew and Luke.

Jesus’ birth is not included in the Gospels of Mark and John. Each of those books begins with Jesus as an adult.

The Miracle of the Angel

In Matthew, the first Angel appears to Joseph in a dream.

The angel Gabriel visits Mary first to announce her favor and pregnancy in Luke. Then, this same Angel appears to Joseph in a dream.

When Jesus was born, an Angel appeared to shepherds in a field nearby.

At first, they were startled by the bright light.

Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.

An Angel

The Angel delivered the message of Jesus’s birth.

Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

An Angel (Luke 2:11-12)

Then, in Luke 2:13-14,

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“Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the Angel, praising God and saying, Glory to God in the Highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

The Angel announced Jesus’ birth.

The birth of Christ the King!

Today, let’s celebrate the Miracle of Christ on Christmas!

MERRY CHRISTMAS
& HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JESUS!

#Christmas #Miracles #Angel #Jesus #Messiah

I and Thou: Comfort & Joy

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by P.s. Art Studios

Comfort & Joy

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
Take a break. Step away and find a quiet place.

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
Sit for a while. Ask for God’s presence.

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
Be still. Close your eyes. Breathe. Relax.

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
In the depths of your soul, reach as far down as you can.

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
Sit for a while. Be open to God’s presence.

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
Ask God to sit next to you and join you in your thoughts.

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
Shh. Quiet. Hear God speak.

God says, Hello, precious child.
“I knit you together in your mother’s womb.” (Psalm 139:9)
I am so happy to see you. I’ve been waiting for you to ask me to sit with you.
Go ahead and tell me what is on your mind.

It’s okay. Speak your mind.
Stay awhile in this sacred place.

Comfort and joy,
Where can I find this comfort and joy?
In this sacred space, may you find comfort and joy.

Whatever your religious beliefs are or are not, may this season of holidays, encourage you and bring you tidings of comfort and joy.

*****

Inspired by the Christmas Song, God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen…
“Fear not,” then said the Angel, “let nothing you affright,
This day is born a Saviour, Of pure Virgin bright,
To free all those who trust in Him, From Satan’s power and might.”
O tidings of comfort and joy,
Comfort and joy,
O tidings of comfort and joy.

#Comfort #Joy #Christmas #SacredSpace

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A Christmas Miracle – Part 6

A What?

The other day, I had a conversation with a long-time friend. She told me she had been looking to purchase a manger for her Christmas Nativity Set. The salespeople she asked didn’t know what a manger was, let alone how it fit into Christmas!

As I write this post, even Grammarly doesn’t recognize the word manger! How sad is that?

A Manger

A manger is a place to feed animals. Quite an unlikely place for Jesus to be born. Or was it?

A manger.
It is not pretty.
Under the shelter of a roof, a piece of wood lies in a barn or stable.
It may or may not have raised legs and is filled with hay or slop.
In the wintertime, back in the day, it was common for people to bunk in with their animals to stay safe and warm, like a giant slumber party with your furry friends.

manger

ˈmān-jər

NOUN
a trough (see trough sense 1a) or open box in a stable designed to hold feed or fodder for livestock.

Merriam Webster Dictionary

A Baby in a Manger

Can you imagine a baby in a manger?

It would be utterly appalling to some to see a newborn in an unsterilized, dirty, filthy trough used to feed animals. Yet, some might see this scene as a sign of great awe and wonder.

Think about this.

The God of the Universe chose a stable filled with animal creatures to welcome his Son. This was the ultimate sacrifice and message of love and humility. God sent his Son for…

Every. Single. Person. On. This. Planet. Rich. Or. Poor.

Scripture isn’t clear whether animals were or were not present at the birth of Christ. Let’s imagine for a moment that they were. What would it have been like for the animals witnessing the birth of Jesus? Sure, they had seen cows, horses, and pigs give birth, but a human? How divine! Just like God saved the animals from dying in the Great Flood, God blessed the animals as witnesses of this most sacred event.

The Miracle of the Manger

The true meaning of Christmas may have evaporated from some of the fabric of our society. Yet, some of us know, this “living water,” was a miracle.

The most perfect baby in the world was born in a lowly manger. Jesus, born in a manger. The same Jesus who fed 5,000. The same Jesus who feeds our soul. This Jesus, was born in a manger made with the purpose of feeding animals, can feed you, too!

His name was, is, and will be forever, Jesus.

Away in a Manger

Away in a manger, no crib for a bed,
The little Lord Jesus laid down his sweet head.

The stars in the sky looked down where he lay,
The little Lord Jesus asleep in the hay.

The cattle are lowing, the baby awakes,
But little Lord Jesus no crying he makes.

I love Thee, Lord Jesus, look down from the sky
And stay by my cradle til morning is nigh.

Be near me, Lord Jesus, I ask Thee to stay
Close by me forever, and love me, I pray.

Bless all the dear children in thy tender care,
And take us to heaven, to live with Thee there.

Author (attributed to): Martin LutherAuthor (st. 1-2): Anonymous (1885)Author (v. 3, attr.): John T. McFarland (1892)

A Christmas Miracle – Part 5

There is no doubt in anyone’s mind about the emotional roller coaster of pregnancy. It’s something experienced by all who are in close contact with a woman “with child.” From the crazy food cravings to the emotional outbursts, there is never a dull moment.

Mary & Son, Jesus
Elizabeth & Son, John (The Baptist)

Mary and Elizabeth were first-time mothers-to-be and surely had emotions stirring inside of them. Both were destined to give birth. Both had partners at their side.

At her advanced age, Elizabeth probably laughed, yet felt blessed to be able to conceive and finally bear a child. She looked forward to blending in with the other women in the neighborhood. She would no longer be stared at for being childless. Awe. Astonished. Honored. Blessed. Privileged. Matronly. Relief.

Mary did not laugh, yet most likely felt blessed and privileged to be chosen by God to deliver the baby Jesus. Even being the Holy Mother, she undoubtedly felt the scorn of some in society as an unwed pregnant girl. What shame she must have felt and her family, too. Throw that all in with a mix of hormones running wild, and one can sense the good with the bad. Awe. Astonishment. Honored. Blessed. Anointed. Miraculous. Unbelief. Lowly. Scared. Disappointed. Bewildered. Humbled. Sacred. 

Unique Story

Like Elizabeth, I was older when I gave birth to my younger son. It was redemptive to me, a moment filled with joy. It might have been something like the anticipation that Elizabeth felt. My pregnancy was uncomplicated! It contrasted with my first one, which might have echoed Mary’s apprehension and curiosity. Like Mary’s experience, my husband wasn’t initially thrilled about my first pregnancy, leading to emotional turmoil. My dream of motherhood clashed with the challenges of medical complications, which labeled my pregnancy as high-risk. While overjoyed, I felt conflicted, as perhaps Mary did. I wondered if I had done something terribly wrong. 

When reflecting on my pregnancy, it’s not hard for me to imagine that Elizabeth and Mary faced their diverse emotions just as I did. I’m pretty sure the feelings darted all around. The joyous anticipation, the unforeseen challenges, and the conflicting emotions bubbling up inside.

I experienced all kinds of emotions all at the same time. For me, there was no other life experience that came close. It was like being on a rollercoaster, with its ups and downs, having a massage day at the spa while enjoying your favorite ice cream cone while crying – all rolled up into one.

The Miracle of Emotions

Just as God chose Elizabeth and Mary to play pivotal roles in the Nativity Story, God may have chosen a man named Mark to play a significant role in my first pregnancy. Mark was the counselor at the clinic. He was kind and empathetic. He guided my then-husband and me through our whirlwind of emotions and encouraged us to stay strong.

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The Closeness to God

Toward the end of pregnancy, the anticipation. The unknown. The praying. The closeness to God.

Praying for the baby. 

Praying for the baby’s health. 

Praying for stability. 

Praying for a loving husband to be supportive. 

Praying for the miracle of birth.

I felt that God was with me every step of the way. And I’m guessing Elizabeth and Mary felt that way too. Our pregnancies and the birth process were nothing short of a miracle. Like Elizabeth and Mary, I had a son. Then, six and a half years later, I gave birth to a second son. The experience of feeling different emotions at the same time was a miracle. 

Have you considered asking God about the emotions you feel?

The next blog will explore The Miracle of Jesus’ birth.

#Birth #Christmas #Motherhood #Mary #Elizabeth #Faith #NavityStory #Emotions #Pregnancy

A Christmas Miracle – Part 4

Elizabeth and Mary were key players in the Christmas Story. Each had a unique role in giving birth under different circumstances. Yet, each was obedient to God and fulfilled their miraculous divine appointments.

We will continue our consideration of the Miracle of Birth theme by exploring the emotions swirling around in a woman’s head “with child.”

The Miracle of Emotions During Pregnancy

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We can all agree that emotions run all over the place in daily life, in some of us more than others. And certainly, more when pregnant. A woman’s first pregnancy is filled with an array of emotions that swirl around with her hormones, making them quite jumbled. From excitement…to…feelings of confidence sprinkled with inadequacies, it is a time in a woman’s life when success and failure take on a whole new meaning: Her baby solely depends on her. The woman is the incubator.

Yet, she is still a woman. She is trying to wrap her head around the never-ending changes in her body. She begins to think of her baby, herself, and the world around her.

She asks herself, “What is happening?”

The food cravings.
The sexual desire.
The baby.
The father.
The grandparents.
The extended family.

Anxiety, frustration, tiredness, joy, anticipation, delight, miracle.

Questions may include:

Will I have a healthy baby?
Why am I getting so fat?
How else will my body change?
How is my baby going to fit out of my body?
Why does the smell of food make me sick?
Why am I feeling this way? 
When will my nausea subside?
How does one take care of a baby?
Who will take care of the baby if I’m sick?
How will I be as a mother?
Will I be good enough?
I have no experience.
How will I manage all that is expected of me?

Anxiety, frustration, tiredness, joy, anticipation, love, doubt, delight, miracle.

In the next blog, we will more specifically, imagine how Elizabeth and Mary may have felt when pregnant.

#Birth #Christmas #Motherhood #Mary #Elizabeth #Faith #NavityStory #Emotions #Pregnancy

A Christmas Miracle – Part 3

In the last post, we talked about Elizabeth’s backstory. How Elizabeth and Mary were cousins pregnant at the same time.

The Miracle of Birth – The Backstory of Mary

The story begins with Mary, a young girl, and her fiancé, Joseph. 

Mary and Joseph were engaged.

Mary was a virgin, until the Holy Spirit visited and impregnated her, causing confusion for the pair. Not to mention family and friends as well. Theoretically, Mary was still a virgin. 

*Artist: Stephen B. Whatley: Mary and The Holy Baby Jesus – St Stephen’s Day 2012 www.stephenbwhatley.com 

“Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High.”

Angel Gabriel

Of course, Joseph was quite angry that his betrothed was “with child.” And he knew it wasn’t his! 

Anger led to the Angel.

In a dream, an Angel visited Joseph and told him to care for Mary.

“Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.”

Angel Gabriel

And so it was. Joseph and Mary were a couple, and they were destined to become parents. Parents of the long-awaited Messiah.

Pillars of Faith

Elizabeth and Mary were pillars of faith and obedience to God. And so were their respective partners, Zechariah and Joseph. Although Elizabeth was well beyond her childbearing years, it was miraculous for her to conceive. It was her pregnancy that served as a precursor to Mary’s virgin birth. Mary’s conception was even more miraculous because it symbolized the divine nature of the birth of the Christ-child that transcended all logical and biological thoughts and constructs.

Transcending All Logic

Faith transcends logic. To the logical mind, we must see proof before something can be believed. Yet, as people of faith, we don’t have to see evidence. We believe because we “feel” the Spirit of God within us. After all, we were made in the image of God. It sure is awesome to “feel” God’s presence. Yet, many of us feel dry. Unheard. Empty. We ask, “Where are you, God.” And the answer is silence.

Is it possible to have faith when you don’t “feel” God’s presence. Faith is a choice. Choosing to believe regardless of your feelings will reap rewards whether you “feel” them or not.

We Are The Clay

There hasn’t been a time in my life when God was absent. Of course, there were times when I thought he abandoned me. Like when I was bullied in junior high school. Or during my first marriage. Or during the divorce. But, I realized that God was walking me through the darkness. So I could come out the other side. Like a piece of fine pottery after being in the kiln’s heat.

Sometimes, we must surrender logic to fully feel the Holy Spirit in us. If you feel lost, perhaps try to talk to God? Ask God to reveal his image to you. To feel his presence. To walk with you on your life journey. God is the peace that passeth all understanding.

A Christmas Miracle – Part 4, will discuss the Miracle of Emotions During Pregnancy.

#Birth #Christmas #Motherhood #Mary #Elizabeth #Faith #Nativity #Logic #Faith #Miracles

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