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When We Are Chosen

A Series of Sacred Belonging

Scripture for Today:

I have called you by name; you are mine.

— Isaiah 43:1

Reflection:

There’s something special about being chosen. It’s not about anything we did or didn’t do. Nor is it how smart we are or how well we do something.

But simply because we are who we are.

God’s choosing is relational.
Eternal.
Love.

Yet there is an element of transaction.

God gives.
Freely.
Still, we must do something.
And that is what we must receive.

We must consciously accept God’s gift.
When we do, we become treasure—
like the woman who searched for the lost coin,
rejoicing when it was found.

We are cherished.
Even when we feel forgotten.
Even when we feel unworthy.
Even when we feel like we don’t belong. We do. We belong.

We belong to the One—
The One who calls us by name.

One of Sacred Belonging.

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When We Create Space

A Series of Sacred Belonging

Scripture of Today:

You will make known to me the path of life;
in Your presence is fullness of joy…

— Psalm 16:11

Questions to Ponder:

Where in your life do you need more space?
What might you need to release to make room?

Reflection:

Who couldn’t use a little more space?
Or a snow day in the middle of summer?

We live in a world that fills quickly.
Calendars.
Closets.
Conversations.
Even our hearts can feel crowded.

But sacred belonging begins with space.
Space to breathe.
Space to listen.
Space to be.

Creating space is not just about clearing clutter.
It’s about intention.
It’s about making room for what matters.

For God. For others. For the quiet parts of ourselves.

Sometimes we create space by saying no.
Sometimes by saying yes. Or simply by pausing.

When we create space, we invite presence.
Presence of the Divine.
So the door to connection can open.
With family.
With friends.
With ourselves.

Which leads us to a sense of belonging.

One that is of Sacred Belonging.

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When We Welcome The Stranger

A Series of Sacred Belonging

Scripture for Today:

I was a stranger and you welcomed me.

— Matthew 25:35

Questions to Ponder:

Who have you kept at a distance?
What would it look like to welcome them?

Reflection:

Sometimes the stranger is someone we’ve never met.
Sometimes it’s someone who has removed themselves from our lives that we wish hadn’t.
Sometimes it’s someone we’ve known but forgotten.
And sometimes, the stranger is a part of ourselves.

So, what are we to do?

We are to welcome the stranger.
No matter who it is.
No matter when it is.
No matter the reason.

Why?

God invites us to welcome.
Because we are all brothers and sisters.

God made us in His image.
And we ought to love one another.
Friends and strangers alike.

When we welcome the stranger,
We open the door.
We make space.

We say, “You are seen. You are safe. You belong.”

And in doing so, we welcome Christ Himself. Not in grandeur, but in gentleness. Not in certainty, but in love…

One that is of Sacred Belonging.

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When We Open The Door

A Series of Sacred Belonging

Scripture for Today:

Behold, I stand at the door and knock…

— Revelation 3:20

Questions to Ponder:

Have you ever expected a guest to arrive, only for someone else to knock on your door instead?
Or doesn’t arrive at all?
How does that make you feel?

Reflection:

Sometimes we extend an invitation to a special guest.
One that we have been wanting to spend time with.
One that we haven’t seen in a while.
Or someone that we want to get to know better.

We look forward to that appointment.
We anticipate.
We lean into the preparations.
We might even get lost in the excitement.

Then, the doorbell rings.
And no one is there.
Our hearts sink.
We are disappointed.
But what if it were God who knocked?

Would you still feel disappointed?

Christ doesn’t barge in.
He knocks.
He waits.
In the hopes of being welcomed.

And sometimes, we’re too busy.
Too distracted.
Too unsure of what to say.

Sometimes the most important guest is the one we don’t see.
Because they arrive quietly.
Without fanfare.
Without demand.
Without expectations.

This season, may we listen for the knock.
May we open the door.
May we welcome the guest—the One we may not see.

One Who Leads Us to Sacred Belonging.

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When We Wander

A Series of Sacred Belonging

Scripture for Today:

Even if I settle on the far side of the sea,
even there your hand will guide me…

— Psalm 139:9–10

Question to Ponder:

Have you wanted to run away from God,
yet still want to be in reach?

Reflection:

Sometimes we wander through life with conflicting purposes.
We think we want one thing, yet we feel steered toward something different.

We wander away from God at times, too.
The days we forget to pray.
Or we don’t have time for a quiet meditation.
Our relationship with God seems to fall off course.
We feel far from God.
Far from others.
And far from ourselves.

Why?

We’re tired.
We’re hurt.
We’re searching for something – we often don’t know what.
It is that sense of belonging we want to get back.

When we are ready, God will be there.
Even when we lose our way…
Follow the light.
It will lead to divine presence.   

One of Sacred Belonging.

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When We Have Doubts

A Series of Sacred Belonging

Scripture for Today:

Lord, I believe; help my unbelief.

— Mark 9:24

Questions to Ponder:

How do you deal with doubt?
Do you carry them in darkness?

Reflection:

Doubt is something we all feel from time to time.
It sneaks in.
Quietly.
In the middle of the night.
In the middle of a prayer.
In the middle of a conversation.

Doubts often lead to questions.
Sometimes, the more questions we have, the more doubt there is.
Sometimes, we feel paralyzed.
Afraid of what others may think.
Afraid that our doubts might keep us from doing the right thing.
Or worried that God will leave us.

But Scripture tells a different story.
A father cries to Jesus,

“I believe—help my unbelief.”

And Jesus responds with healing.

God accepts the doubting heart.
He meets it.
He holds it.
He helps it believe again.

Faith is not the absence of doubt.
It’s the courage to bring our questions to the One who understands.
To where we belong.
To the place where even doubt is welcome.  

One Where There is Sacred Belonging.

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When We Feel Scattered

A Series of Sacred Belonging

Scripture for Today:

He gathers the lambs in His arms and
carries them close to His heart…

— Isaiah 40:11

Reflection:

Some days, we feel scattered.
Due to demands.
In the workplace and at home.
Too much stress.
Too much on our plates to juggle.
Too much change in a short time.
Disconnection from others.
Or ourselves.
Ambiguous loss or grief.

We may not even know what scattered us.
A conversation that left us uneasy.
An uninvited memory.
A season of time.
Sometimes we just don’t know.
And yet—God gathers.
Because He knows.

He gathers us with tenderness – not force.
With compassion – not shame.
We who may have gone astray.
He gathers us all.
The weary.
The wandering.
The souls who feel they are far too gone.

God carries us.
When we can’t carry ourselves.
You are not forgotten.
You are not too far.
You are not alone.

God scoops us up.
And in His arms, we remember who we are.

One of Sacred Belonging.

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Sacred Belonging

A Series for November

We all long to belong.
Not just to fit in, but to be known.
To be received.
To be held in the quiet spaces of grace.

This series was born from that longing.

It’s for the scattered heart, the questioning soul, the weary caregiver.
It’s for those who have wandered, waited, and wondered.
It’s for those who are seeking.
Those wishing to open the door.

Each reflection is a gentle invitation—
to pause, breathe, and listen.
To create space.
To welcome the stranger.
To receive grace and offer it freely.

You won’t find quick fixes here.
But you will find:
Presence.
A sacred space.
Scripture.
Questions that stir.

Because sacred belonging isn’t earned.
It’s received. It’s the place we were always meant to be.

One of Sacred Belonging.

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What Resilience Has Taught Me (Part 2)

The Many Faces of Resilience

Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be
mature and complete, not lacking anything. –James 1:4

Most people go through hard seasons. But some folks get more than their share. The death of a child. A high-conflict divorce. Estrangement. Loss that doesn’t just sting—it reshapes everything.

I remember watching a documentary years ago about centenarians—

people who live to be 100 or more.

One thing they had in common?

How they handled loss. Some saw it as devastation. Some couldn’t seem to overcome it. Yet, the centenarians saw loss as a stepping stone. A place to pause, reflect, and then move forward with deeper wisdom.

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So, what do I think  grit looks like?

G – Groundedness   R – Resilience   I – Instinct   T – Tenacity

Resilience is part of grit. And grit is made up of all kinds of things:

  • Against all Odds
  • Communication
  • Courage
  • Creativity
  • Faith
  • Growth mindset
  • Hope
  • Listening
  • Motivation
  • Passion
  • Positivity
  • Perseverance
  • Practical Application
  • Purposeful Actions
  • Stick-to-it-ness

Faith and hope are not just add-ons. They’re the fuel. They remind us that we’re not alone in the struggle and that even in the darkest seasons, light is still possible.

Resilience doesn’t mean we never fall.
It means we rise—sometimes slowly,
sometimes shakily.
But always with the possibility of grace.

What about you? What has resilience taught you?

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