A Series on Love, Relationships, and Bricks
A Seven-Story House of Love
Brick by Brick
Brick 5: Manage Conflict
Let’s be honest. Conflict happens whether we like it or not. Even in the best relationships, you’ll hit a bump (or twelve million).
So, how do you manage it?
You learn to fight fair, not dirty.
You’re not enemies.
You’re co-captains of the same ship.
You are mates.
On a ship.
Sailing in the same direction.
It’s okay to feel angry, frustrated, or overwhelmed.
What To Do Next?
That’s what matters.
It’s critical like a SOS.
Will you throw words like daggers?
Or take a breath… and talk it out?
Managing conflict means:
Taking a pause before reacting.
Speaking to your honey, not at them or in a condescending tone.
Choosing calm over chaos.
Why?
Because when you let things fester, it spreads like a fungus.
A virus.
Hard to shake. Harder to fix.
Practice with me:
“I’m sorry you’re upset. Let’s sit down.
Tell me what’s going on—I’ll listen. Promise.”
(Write it down. Repeat it if you need to. It’s okay.)
You’re not trying to “win” the argument.
You’re trying to protect the treasure: your connection.
Every Couple Disagrees
But how you repair those bricks is how the house keeps standing.
So next time things heat up:
Take a break if you need it.
Return with respect.
And remind each other: You’re on the same team.
You’re not just patching bricks with mortar. You’re reinforcing the layers to withstand the storms of time.
You’ve got this…
Brick by brick.
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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